I (Abbey) don't blog often (okay, ever), but I had an experience with Reed tonight I want to remember. I'm writing for my own benefit, as this blog serves our family as a scrapbook for our lives. Sorry there are no pictures; Jeff will remedy that tomorrow or Saturday.
Today was a tough day. Reed and Nash were challenging. They emptied Will's closet of diapers (again) with me in the room. Reed says (still no verification) that he took a snail out of the aquarium and threw it behind the entertainment center. Nash stood on the table he knows he's not supposed to stand on because I have told him many times. I caught Reed throwing a drum stick in the air...and explaining he wanted to be like a baton girl in the parade. Will didn't disobey that I'm aware of, but I'm sure it's only a matter of time. For now, he's my sweet little old man.
Tonight I was saying prayers with Reed before he went to sleep. In the middle of our prayer, Reed said, "Why did Jesus have to die on the cross?" We talked a bit about it in simple terms. I began to tell him about Jesus being born many years ago. He was quite disturbed that Jesus was born in a "barn" and was outside. He was also troubled that Mary was there when Jesus died on the cross. (He asked; I wasn't going to share that info. He wanted to know if his mama was there.)
One part of the story was particularly interesting for Reed. When I shared that the wise men brought gifts to a young Jesus and began to explain what they brought, Reed interrupted me, asking, "Did they bring Jesus monster trucks?" I began to laugh, and Reed immediately said, "Don't laugh, mommy. It's not funny."
No, Reed, the wise men did not bring Jesus monster trucks, but you certainly bring me joy. I love your desire to learn more about Jesus and really understand what is important in life. Thanks for reminding me of what's really important on a day when it was easy to get discouraged. I'm sure Jesus would have loved monster trucks if he had received them.
dontchya love it when God uses little ones to bring joy and many times bring us back to what is important....thanks for sharing (hang in there!!)
ReplyDelete*tearing up majorly* Reminds me of the song "Mary, Did You Know?" *sob!*
ReplyDeleteOh, Abbey, what a sweet moment! (I would have chuckled too.) I imagine Reed thinks monster trucks are worth their weight in gold!! ;o)
I love Reed's curiosity and his tender heart. You two are doing a wonderful job shepherding this child whom God has entrusted to you. What an adventure you're on!!
May Christmastime continue to be especially precious this year for the Lands. \o/
~ Andi H.
Beautiful. These are the moments that soak into a mama's heart. You are giving your children the greatest gift they can have...to know who Jesus is.
ReplyDeletePuts it all in perspective, doesn't it? What a thoughtful, caring boy Reed is! This story melted my heart. Thanks for sharing, Abbey.
ReplyDeleteAbbey,what a special story!!! Reed is sooo smart and just seems to have that inner tenderness about things. Can't wait to see you all in a couple of weeks. Love, Enna
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